Kintsugi is a form of Japanese art where broken pottery pieces are put back together with gold. Instead of being hidden, repaired cracks and damages are highlighted and celebrated in all their imperfect beauty. I have learned about this concept only recently, but it is such a great metaphor for life.
Failure, brokenness, loss… All these experiences can bring much disappointment, sadness, and regret into our lives. Yet, so often, especially when we get caught in negative thinking, we tend to forget that they bring much growth and wisdom and beauty with them, too.
Loving, the Kintsugi philosophy teaches us about acceptance. That the many downs that we encounter in our lives are just part of our journey on this planet. Rather than trying to ignore them or run away from them, the only way is to face them when and as they come.
Kintsugi also teaches us about resilience. That while we can never change what happened in the past, there are ways we can come out of difficult situations stronger, perhaps even manage to create something beautiful out of them. If only we are willing to pick those broken pieces up from the floor first.
Kindly,
Neva.